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WHAT'S YOUR NUMBER?

WHAT'S YOUR NUMBER
 Anyone who knows me knows that I love YOUTUBE...So today I came across this series called The Couple and there was an episode about a couple who just got engaged. The woman stated that since they were getting married now she wanted to be open and honest. So they decided to write down on a piece of paper their number of partners and exchange it. It was hilarious because her number was way higher than his. I was really cracking up at this episode. It got me thinking..Should you tell your significant other how people you slept with?

My opinion is this..I really think that what's in the past..should stay in the past. To be honest I don't want to know how many girls you have slept with in the past. It's not relevant to me and it not important. All I really want to know that you are healthy and disease free. It all plays in that double standard when it comes to men and women. If a women has a double-digit or even a triple-digit number she is look as if she is a hoe or a slut. When men have a high number it is praised but that's another story. It was hilarious because he looked at her differently than before. She was no longer his beautiful fiance..now she looked like a hoe that he was trying to wife up!

So what is you take on this topic! Feel free to comment below because now everyone can comment.

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  1. AnonymousFebruary 19, 2012 at 10:03 PM

    OMG. Girl they are a mess. But really yes we should discuss this with our partner. It is vital. keep a calendar and a list. People are dying from alphabets and they can be br prevented.

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    1. Biffy MichelleFebruary 20, 2012 at 1:11 PM

      I don't think that you should tell because the number but I think your health status is more important

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  2. Queen SnickerFebruary 23, 2012 at 9:12 PM

    It's not important if you are disease free. The past is the past as long as the past dont hunt the present or the future. Some people are trying to get s clean slate and cant do that if everyone is judging on the past. Once a person get a certain age in live both parties do not want to know. If you or the other person is disease free... let that S**T go. It doesn't really matter if she was just quick to open her legs or she opened her heart (which a lot of women and girls do) before they realize this is not the right person for me. How it another number and name on the list.

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  3. AnonymousFebruary 24, 2012 at 6:06 PM

    Good one biffy...however times has changed alot & who u are as a person is not based on how many ppl u have slept with...when an comes to me and my number, i am laughed at & was labeled inexprienced becuz of my number by my friends...so its a lose lose situation so don't tell ;)

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