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Like it or Nahh

I have noticed that if you are a woman you are not suppose to be outwardly sexual because it is frowned upon. I have learned that people tend to judge a woman for being sexual which I think is pretty ridiculous! I have been a victim of this myself. Some men that I have dealings with in the past didn't necessarily liked that I blogged about sex or that I was so open with strangers about my love life. I found that quite funny and very judgmental but I guess that comes with the territory. If I am divulging all this info about myself someone out there isn't going to agree with me or be on my side. I expect that I want that because I respect people's criticism but when it's malicious I don't tolerant that.

I think that what I write about could possibly help another person. I know that I go thru things on a daily basis when it comes to men and relationships. Why not share my experiences and my take on things whether it be sexual or not. Some people's opinions are just that opinions! The fact that a person tries to belittle what I am doing let's me know that I am doing the right thing.

I am very aware of my sexuality and I think that's frightening to men in some way. I often think there is no such thing of penis envy...it's pussy envy!! That's one thing you can't control is what I say or write about in my blog...whether it be about my sexual encounters or hail dates I have went on. I am gonna speak about sex...dicks...pussy..oral sex...bad sex..good sex..stupid men..dumb women...Whatever I choose to write about!!

As I am in my last year of my twenties I find myself very accepting of myself! I am more confident about who I am and what I want. I am no skinny girl and that fact that I can look in the mirror with everything hanging out whether it be a belly or bulge I find myself loving every minute it! I don't care about what people say or think about me anymore. That includes my sexuality as well but that doesn't mean I don't respect myself. It doesn't mean that I'm a whore or slut. It means that I know who I am. That is human!

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