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Song Of The Week



Horace Brown "Gotta Find A Way" is song of the week because it's a perfect example of how a man can't get over a woman cheating on him. I just think it is funny that when a man cheats its ok and the women have to suck it up because he was just being a man. At the same when a woman cheats she a whore and she's down bad. I'm not condoning cheating but if you both are cheating then one isn't greater than the other!! But anyway I love this song cause he just pouring his little heart out!! Poor Tink Tink!!!

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