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Keep It A Hunitt!!!

I thought the older I got I wouldn't have to deal with dishonesty. I thought that men my age or older would be the type that's not into lying and game playing. Boy was I wrong! I have been encountering some guys straight serving that fertilizer! I know that it's the guys that I am attracted too or that are attracted to me. I am not saying that all men that are around my age group are bullshitters. I thought that by a certain age the game playing would end. I am just so tired of going thru the same things I went thru in high school. It gets old after a while and it comes to a point where you know when someone is running game or if they are truly genuine.

 I just hate a liar with a passion. I hate being lied to and it's the worst feeling in the world. My thing is why not be honest upfront and let me know what I am getting into. The most disrespectful thing is when you don't keep your word. Don't tell me you are gonna do something and then don't pull thru. It doesn't feel good when you are truly interested in a guy /girl and they don't even acknowledge that fact that your feelings a genuine & true.I know it's hard to see that person in that light because when you are making love to that person it feels so good and so right. You get this connection with this person and you feel like they really care about you.  I realized that someone who genuinely cares for you will show it. They are not gonna tell you one thing and do another. They do make an effort to spend time with you even if they are busy. I'm a very affectionate person and I want that in return. I don't want to feel like I have to beg for attention that should be warranted up front if I am showing you that you are worthy of my attention as well.

You shouldn't feel single if you are with someone right!  All the games and lies are for the dinosaurs because it really gets old.  I just realized that I need to stop giving husband privileges to Ni**as that are not my husband. I'm just saying! I bet if I were to act like a total bitch I would get a better response instead of being understanding and patient. Men love Bitches right? Well I digress with that one lol. It's time ladies and gents to stop with the tom foolery! Why play games with people? Stop going in with a poker face as if you have a full house when in reality you only have two deuces! If a guy/girl did all those unpleasant things and then said that they care would you believe them?

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  1. Dey r full of shit nd we have let men get away wit too much now they feeling like Stevie j, its dey dam bus nd we act like we too stupid to get off at the next dam stop, I kno all too well been there nd b dam if I go thru it Eva again u have to learn ur own self worth nd kno u r worth so much more. nd women like joseline thinking dey doing sumthin but ain't doing shit but saying ill stay no matter how u treat me.


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